The Key to Dunking Your Doubts and Unclogging Your Optimism
It’s not news that the kinds of questions you ask can greatly influence the kind of success you enjoy.
If you’re always asking yourself, “Can I do this? Can I get this project done?”, guess what your day is going to be swamped with? That’s right — uncertainty. Doubt. A submerged sense of confidence. And, because you’re always wondering if it’s even possible, you never fully engage with the task at hand, and so the major determiner of your project’s success (your commitment) is missing, or halfway at best.
I used to suffer from this, big time. I’d get great ideas, but always wonder if I could pull them off, or not. As a result, I spent a lot of time wondering, hemming and hawing, and never really applying myself to the fullest. I constantly felt water-logged, as if time was slipping down the drain.
(And if you want another productivity tip, try that one on for size: Engage fully. Sitting on the fence does little good when it comes to getting things done.)
So, where were we? Oh yes… questions.
Shifting away from “Can I do it?” questions is crucial if you want to make headway with your projects. At the same time, making that shift can be harder than three times nine.

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Today we did the “Key to Your Purpose” telecall (if you’d like to download the recording, you can get it from the
I was at a workshop of some kind (as a participant, not a facilitator), in a semi-nice, yet semi-cheesy hotel conference room, with wood-paneled walls and bad carpeting. There were at least ten other participants, but it was clear that all the focus, in that moment, was on me.
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